Things in LIFE

As I've grown, I've come to realized and learned several things.. The things in LIFE~

That life is always full of disappointments and people you trusted will sooner or later let you down.
I've learned that often those you love will love someone else and there's only one way to fall; fall fast and fall hard.
I've learned that out of thousands of smiles, it takes one to touch your heart.
I've found that words can be deceiving, but the truth always lies in a person's eyes.
I've learned that everything can change in the blink of an eye and tears often come without invitation.
I've learned that crying can make us stronger and there is never too much love to go around.
I've learned that prejudice helps no one and that weapons don't hurt people, it is just the people who hurt people.
I've learned that sticks and stones may leave cuts and bruises but harsh words leave the scars.
I've found that every time you give someone a piece of your heart, it's a piece that you will never get back.
I've learned the past is meant to be put behind us and we can't dwell on regrets, for what's done is done.
I've learned that trusting yourself is the first step and that forgiving is the second.
I've found that family isn't always about blood and everyone is always someone's hero.
I've learned life is unexpected and that GOD can do anything. Really ANYTHING~
I've learned some things aren't meant to be understood and that only time heals.
I've found that imagination is our greatest gift and that we are meant to dream for a reason.
I've learned it is never too late to fall in love and that being "beautiful" is all on the inside.

Mistakes are our best teachers and everything happens, it happens for a reason. Only then can you live life to it's full and true potential.

Live life to the fullest cause Life's always like that~ ♥

WHATYA WANT FROM ME

There might have been a time
When I would give myself away
Oooh once upon a time I didn't give a damn
But now, here we are so whataya want from me
Whataya want from me

Just don't give up I'm workin it out
Please don't give in, I won't let you down
It messed me up, need a second to breathe
Just keep coming around
Hey, whataya want from me
Whataya want from me
Whataya want from me

Just let "ME" be "ME"

"I'm the one who has to die when its time for me to die,
So let me live my life, the way I want to." Thank you~

Quarter-Life Crisis

Quarter-life crisis starts when you stop going along with the crowd and start realizing that there are many things about yourself that you didn't know and may not like.

You start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or two, but then get scared because you barely know where you are now. You start realizing that people are selfish and that, maybe, those friends that you thought you were so close to aren't exactly the greatest people you have ever met, and the people you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones. What you don't recognize is that they are realizing that too, and aren't really cold, catty, mean or insincere, but that they are as confused as you.

You look at your job... and it is not even close to what you thought you would be doing, or maybe you are looking for a job and realizing that you are going to have to start at the bottom and that scares you. Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what others are doing and find yourself judging more than usual because suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life and are constantly adding things to your list of what is acceptable and what isn't.

One minute, you are insecure and then the next, secure. You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your life. You feel alone and scared and confused.

Suddenly, change is the enemy and you try and cling on to the past with dear life, but soon realize that the past is drifting further and further away, and there is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward.

You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do such damage to you. Or you lie in bed and wonder why you can't meet anyone decent enough that you want to get to know better. Or maybe you love someone but love someone else too and cannot figure out why you are doing this because you know that you aren't a bad person.

Random hook ups starts to look cheap. Getting wasted and acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic.

You go through the same emotions and questions over and over again, and talk about it with your peeps and it is about the same topics everytime because you cannot seem to make a decision. You worry about money, the future and making a life for yourself... What you may not realize is that everyone reading this relates to it.

We are in our best of times and also our worst of times, trying as hard as we can to figure this whole thing out. Aren't you just confused about LIFE?

Irony of LOVE

THE GREATEST IRONY OF LOVE...

Loving the right person at the wrong time.
Having the wrong person when the time is right.
Finding out that you love someone right after that person walks out of your life.

Gong Xi~ Gong Xi~

Wishing everyone HAPPY Chinese New Year & Gong Xi Gong Xi Fa Da Cai~!

May this TIGER year brings mighty roaring health, luck and wealth to everyone.
And hope everyone be blessed in this Miao Miao 2010 year~

It is time again.. for family reunion, friends gathering, gambling, house visiting, CNY food, Thani & RED packets a.k.a ANGPOWS.. Woot* Woot*

Opps~ Not to forget.. it's also Valentine's Day.. Wishing everyone a Happy Valentine's Day.
May this TIGER year brings more happiness to all of you..

Cheers to all*

The Law of LOVE

Fall in love only when you're READY,Not when you're LONELY.

The Secrets Law of LOVE~

Random | 090210

Life is not for us to casually stroll through it nor avoiding all the problems that will hit on us, but instead we need to make the most out of things, grab each opportunity with both hands and love like you've never been hurt before.

You just got to dream and think BIG, because life is a game and you don't want to just win it or lose it by just playing by the rules, you'll only lose by not giving it a TRY. Every great achievement was once considered Impossible... But you've just got to make it POSSIBLE~!

If Only I Can Turn Back Time

I AM RESIGNING and I AM HEREBY OFFICIALLY TENDERING MY RESIGNATION AS AN ADULT!
I have decided I would like to accept the responsibilities of a six-year-old again!
I want to go down to McDonald's and munch the fries and their Happy Meals.
I want to think that M&M's are better than money because you can eat them.
I want to eat a whole packet of Tim tams without feeling guilty afterwards.
I want to return to when all you knew were colors, multiplication, tables and nursery rhymes.
I want to watch thunder-cats, transformers or even He-man without feeling boring.
I want to return to when you didn't know and you didn't care.
I want to remember the whole morning was filled of what your Mom had packed for lunch and the whole afternoon what you were having for dinner.
I want to just remember how a simple matchbox car or a set of LEGO represented a whole week's worth of entertainment.
I want to remember when you actually had imaginary friends, when magic really existed and when 'Jaws' didn't look fake at all.
And sometimes all I ever wanted to think is that if this World is fair. (Guess not)
Whether that everyone is honest and GOOD would always triumph over evil.
And to think that when a member of the of the opposite sex was just some annoying disturbance. Haha~!
When friends were real and you didn't care if they were short, tall, fat, skinny, pink, green or from a whole other planet, it just didn't matter... until others told you differently!
I want to believe that anything is possible and all you have to do is just Dream.
I want it to be unknown to me the complexities of life and to be completely ecstatic by the little things again like the sound of the Mr. Roti man! ~Ding.. DING.. Ding..
I DON'T want to know of work, money, friendship, relationships, popularity or even footballs!
I just want to believe in the power of smiles, hugs, a kind word, truth, justice, peace, dreams and human kind. And I want to believe that all adults must know everything. (With the "word WHY" always pop up out of curiosity) lol*
So here's my money, credit cards, handphones, car and my adolescence.

How GOOD, IF ONLY I CAN TURN BACK TIME~! ♥

TODAY is a gift

Imagine there is a bank account that credits your account each morning with RM 86,400.
It carries over no balance from day to day.
Every evening the bank deletes whatever part of the balance you failed to use during the day. What would you do? Draw out every cent, of course? Rite~!

Eventually, each of us has such a bank in life and It's named as "TIME".
Every morning, it credits you with 86,400 seconds.
Every night it writes off as lost, whatever of this you have failed to invest to a good purpose. It carries over no balance and it allows no over draft.
Each day it opens a new account for you.
Each night it burns the remains of the day.
If you fail to use the day's deposits, the loss is yours.
There is no drawing against "tomorrow."
You must live in the present on today's deposits.
Invest it so as to get from it the utmost in health, happiness and success!
The clock is running~! Make the most out of it today.

To realize the value of ONE YEAR, just ask a student who failed a grade.

To realize the value of ONE MONTH, just ask a mother who has given birth to a premature baby.

To realize the value of ONE WEEK, just ask the editor of a weekly newspaper.

To realize the value of ONE HOUR, just ask the lovers who are waiting to meet.

To realize the value of ONE MINUTE, just ask a person who just missed a train.

To realize the value of ONE SECOND, just ask someone who just avoided an accident.

To reality the value of ONE MILLISECOND, just ask the person who won a silver medal at the Olympics.

Treasure every moment that you have! And treasure it more because you shared it with someone who are just special, special enough to spend the time with. And remember time waits for no one.

As Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery and Today is a gift. That's why its called the "PRESENT". ♥

Life has now been explained to you

On the first day God created the dog. God said, "Sit all day by the door of your house and bark at anyone who comes in or walks past. I will give you a life span of twenty years." The dog said, "That's too long to be barking. Give me ten years and I'll give you back the other ten."
So God agreed.

On the second day God created the monkey. God said, "Entertain people, do monkey tricks and make them laugh. I'll give you a twenty-year life span." The monkey said, "Monkey tricks for twenty years? I don't think so. Dog gave you back ten, so that's what I'll do too, okay?"
And God agreed.

On the third day God created the cow. "You must go to the field with the farmer all day long and suffer under the sun, have calves, and give milk to support the farmer. I will give you a life span of sixty years."
The cow said, "That's kind of a tough life you want me to live for sixty years. Let me have twenty and I'll give back the other forty."
And God agreed again.

On the fourth day God created man. God said, "Eat, sleep, play, marry and enjoy your life. I'll give you twenty years."
Man said, "What? Only twenty years? Tell you what, I'll take my twenty, and the forty the cow gave back, and the ten the monkey gave back, and the ten the dog gave back, that makes eighty, okay?"

Okay," said God, "You've got a deal."

So that is why the first twenty years we eat, sleep, play, and enjoy ourselves; the next forty years we slave in the sun to support our family; the next ten years we do monkey tricks to entertain the grandchildren; and the last ten years we sit on the front porch and bark at everyone.

Life has now been explained to you.

Life's Like That

Sometimes people come into your life & you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or help you figure out who you are & or who you want to become..

You never know who these people may be (possibly your roommate, family, god-siblings, long lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger), but when you lock eyes with them, you know at the very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.

Sometime things will happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, & unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming these obstacles that you would have never realized your true potential, strength, will power, or heart. Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by mean of good luck.

Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness & sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without this small test, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. It would be safe & comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.

The people that you meet who affect your life, and the success and downfalls gives you experience, help to create who you are and who you will become; even the bad experiences are learned from. In fact, they are the most poignant ones.

If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love & how to open your heart & eyes to things.

Make everyday count. Appreciate every moment & take from those moments everything you could possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people that you have never talked to before & actually listen... Let yourself fall in love again, break free, and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right too.

Tell yourself that you are a great individual & believe in yourself. For if you don't believe in yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you. You can make your life anything you wish... Create your own life & then go all out & live it with absolutely NO REGRETS. Most importantly, if you love someone tell him or her, for you NEVER know what tomorrow may have in store. And lastly, learn a lesson in life each day you live, Live HIGH.

Today is the tomorrow you were worried about yesterday.. Was it worth it?

Life: Don't be aftaid to take chances! ♥

As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down, probably will. You'll have your heart broken and you'll break others' hearts. You'll fight with your best friend or maybe even get so close with them, and you'll cry because time is flying by. So, laugh often, forgive freely, and love like you've never been hurt before. ♥

Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances. you just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they mean to you and tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand, comfort a friend, fall asleep, stay up late and smile until your face hurts. Don't be afraid to take chances and most of all, live in the moment because every second you spend angry or upset is a second of happiness you can never get back. ♥

0102 | 2010

It's 0102 | 2010.. Such a coincidence~! So I would like to share things I've learned in life:-

I've learned that something that you do in an instant, can give you heartache for life.

I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words, it may be that last time you see them.

I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I've learned that either you control your attitude, or it controls you.

I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you are down, will be the one who helps you get up.

I've learned that sometimes when i am angry i have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them too, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you learned from them, and less to do with how many years you have lived.

I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others, but sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I've learned that just because two people argue, doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do love each other.

I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret, it may change your life forever.

I've learned that sometimes the people that you love most in life, are taken from you too soon.

I've learned that you can't make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved, and the rest is up to them.

I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just won't care back.

I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and just seconds to destroy it.

I've learned that it's not what you have in life, but who you have that counts.

I've learned that you can keep going, long after you think you can't.

I've learned that their are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.

I've learned that even when you feel you have no more to give, a friend cries out and you find the strength to help.

I've learned that our backgrounds and circumstances may have influenced our lives, but we are responsible for who we become.

Life's unpredictable. So love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don't and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said that it had to be easy, they just promised it would be worth it.