Life's Like That

Be Thankful..

2011-01-02T16:11:00.001+08:00

Be thankful that you don't already have everything you desire.
If you did, what would there be to look forward to?
Be thankful when you don't know something
for it gives you the opportunity to learn.

Be thankful for the difficult times.
During those times you grow.
Be thankful for your limitations,
because they give you opportunities for improvements.
Be thankful for each new challenge,
because it will build your strength and character.

Be thankful for your mistakes.
They will teach you valuable lessons.
Be thankful when you are tired and weary,
because it means you've made a difference.

It's easy to be thankful for the good things.
A life of rich fulfillment comes to those
who are also thankful for the setbacks.
Gratitude can turn a negative into a positive.
Find a way to be thankful for your troubles
and they can become your blessings.

End of 2010 Saga..

2010-12-31T13:48:00.000+08:00

I experienced a lot this year.
Most of it was so confusing.
Some of it was helpful.
A little of it was understandable.
All of it was fun, crazy, and UNFORGETTABLE.

A little here and there..

2010-12-03T12:04:00.002+08:00

There's a little truth behind every [JUST.KIDDING]

A little curiosity behind every [JUST.WONDERING]

A little knowledge behind every [I.DON'T.KNOW]

And..

A little emotion behind every [I.DON'T.CARE]

Simple Life..

2010-11-30T10:23:00.004+08:00

It’s the simple things in life that are the most extraordinary; Life can be long and hard. So just keep things simple. Live simpler by simplifying your life. To live simple; first is to dream. Nothing comes unless first a dream. Dreams are the stuff that brings us hope and joy to life. ^^V

Quoted by Bruce Lee

2010-11-26T17:43:00.001+08:00

"I am learning to understand rather than immediately judge or to be judged. I cannot blindly follow the crowd and accept their approach. I will not allow myself to indulge in the usual manipulating game of role creation. Fortunately for me, my self-knowledge has transcended that and I have come to understand that life is best to be lived and not to be conceptualized. I am happy because I am growing daily and I am honestly not knowing where the limit lies. To be certain, every day there can be a revelation or a new discovery. I treasure the memory of the past misfortunes. It has added more to my bank of fortitude."

~Bruce Lee

Commit...

2010-11-24T12:13:00.000+08:00

Making your mark on the world is hard. If it were easy, everybody would do it. But it's not. It takes patience, it takes commitment, and it comes with plenty of failure along the way. The real test is not whether you avoid this failure, because you won't. it's whether you let it harden or shame you into inaction, or whether you learn from it; whether you choose to persevere.

Joy Of Growth..

2010-11-24T09:32:00.000+08:00

If you were all alone in the universe with no one to talk to, no one with which to share the beauty of the stars, to laugh with, to touch, what would be your purpose in life? It is other life, it is love, which gives your life meaning. This is harmony. We must discover the joy of each other, the joy of challenge, the joy of growth.

~Mitsui Saotome

Dreams..

2010-11-23T09:29:00.000+08:00

We grow great by dreams. All big men are dreamers. They see things in the soft haze of a spring day or in the red fire of a long winter's evening. Some of us let these great dreams die, but others nourish and protect them; nurse them through bad days till they bring them to the sunshine and light which comes always to those who sincerely hope that their dreams will come true.

Difficulties..

2010-11-22T12:06:00.000+08:00

Whatever you do, you need courage. Whatever course you decide upon, there is always someone to tell you that you are wrong. There are always difficulties arising that tempt you to believe your critics are right. To map out a course of action and follow it to an end requires some of the same courage that a fighter needs. Peace has its victories, but it takes only brave people to win them.

I Believe..

2010-11-22T09:41:00.000+08:00

I believe that imagination is stronger than knowledge -- myth is more potent than history -- dreams are more powerful than facts -- hope always triumphs over experience -- laughter is the cure for grief -- love is stronger than death.

Friends..

2010-11-21T15:40:00.003+08:00

It's those moments when you sit around in a table full of friends around you. Where you gasp for breath between each laugh. It's those moments where you get high off just breathing in so deep, you feel your lungs getting cold. For a second, that split second, you don't care. You don't care about anything, about problems, about money, about rules, or broken hearts. Who you care about are the people sitting next to you... Cause it's all we really need isn't it? Those people next to you. Yeah, the ones who make you feel invincible, even at your weakest points. And YES.. they are what we called them as "FRIENDS"...

YOU GET THE LIFE YOU'RE GIVEN..

2010-11-20T22:20:00.000+08:00

There's mistakes that I have made,

Some roads,
I never should have taken,

Been some signs I didn't see,
Hearts that I hurt needlessly,

Some wounds,
That I wish I could have chance to mend,

But it don't make no difference now,
As the past can't be rewritten,

YOU GET THE LIFE YOU'RE GIVEN..

By the time..

2010-11-18T14:36:00.000+08:00

By the time you figure out you were at mistake,
You realize others have already moved on

By the time you finally decide to say sorry,
You realize they have gotten over your miscues

By the time you start feeling the need of changing,
You realize they won’t accept you anymore

By the time you want to be theirs,
You realize they have dumped you off their lives

By the time you think it’s high time you were crying,
You realize the tears you held inside have already dried up

By the time you begin missing them,
You realize they won’t be missing you anymore

By the time you get yourself to know how much you had hurt them,
You realize they are not here with you anymore

And…

By the time you finally found an answer to that question,
You would realize that it is actually over...

I wonder...

2010-11-16T11:57:00.004+08:00

Why is it that we could do a million things right,
but be forever remembered by one single mistake?
I really WONDER...

I am ME and only ME..

2010-11-15T19:18:00.002+08:00

I am me, and only me.
Take me as I am or watch me as I go.
I'll be the one to love you the most.
But trust me... I won't be the one to stick around forever for you to realize it.
I am me, I am myself and there is no changing it.
Accept me, or don't. I won't change for you anymore.
I'm a lover, not a fighter... but I will always fight for what I love and believe in.
I wish, I hope, I dream.
I am me, living this thing that call LIFE.

If.....

2010-11-12T09:23:00.000+08:00

If you can't be there. Don't. Stop telling them that you will be there, It's better to tell them the truth up front. That way you can spare some feelings and you don't get caught in a bunch of lies or trouble.

If you have something to say. Say it out or shut it. Don't go behind peoples backs. There is no reason to say it to someone else if you can't tell it to the person what it's about.

If you really want something. Go for it. Take a risk. Don't always play it safe or you'll die wondering.

If you love someone. Let them know. Anything could happen to you or the person so tell them while you have a chance. It could change everything.

If you're confused. Make the best of it. There is obviously nothing you can do, so whining and complaining isn't going to do anything. There is a difference between expressing how you feel and complaining. Put forth your best attitude and you just may get out of the mess.. possibly with a different perspective.

If you're troubled. Take time to think about it. Nothing good ever comes out of rash decisions. If it's important enough to trouble you then it's important enough to think about.. Think deeply and you'll figure out something.

If you are being taken advantage of. Let go. Get rid of all thoughts of the person. There is no reason to continue to surround yourself with the person who is taking advantage of you.

If you're going to criticize someone else. Admit your own mistakes first. Everyone makes mistakes. But be aware of your own before you point out someone else.

SMILE.

2010-11-08T02:05:00.000+08:00

Smile.. Even when you're hurting..

Smile.. Even when you're lied to..

Smile.. Even when someone doesn't care..

Smile.. Even if the world comes crashing down..

Smile.. Even if you're hated..

Because...

Someone out there is hurting more than you are..

Someone out there has been lied to more times than you have..

Someone out there is more unloved than you are..

Someone out there doesn't even have a world, no family, no friends, no home..

Someone out there is hated by many more than you are..

Think about it..

2010-11-02T12:37:00.002+08:00

It's okay to make mistakes, but it's not okay to make the same mistake over and over again.
If you do, then you learn nothing.

Quote by Will Smith

2010-10-30T11:11:00.000+08:00

“Throughout life people will make you mad, disrespect you and treat you bad. Let God deal with the things they do, cause hate in your heart will consume you too.”

- Will Smith

LIFE

2010-10-28T10:14:00.000+08:00

Well, do you ever wonder what "LIFE" is all about. I guess I will elaborate the term life as "one-of-the-best-craziest-most-amazing-experiences-you-will-ever-go-through-filled-with-friends-family-good-times-bad-times-heart-pounding-moments-confusion-love-excitement-anger-happiness-fun-and-discovering-who-you-truly-are" And I've realized that four letter word is simply not enough to describe it.

Life as a good book

2010-10-22T11:10:00.000+08:00

I think of life as a good book.

The further you get into it, the more it begins to make sense.

Live HAPPILY...

2010-10-18T00:30:00.000+08:00

In life we do things. Some of the things we wish we had never done, some we wish we could replay a million times in our heads, but they all make us who we are.

In the end, all these experiences shape every detail about us. If we were to reverse any of them, we wouldn't be at the exact place that we are today.

So just live. Make mistakes, and have wonderful times but never ever second guess who you are, where you have been, and most importantly, where it is that you are going..

So just live life, live mighty, live righteously, live freely and most importantly, live HAPPILY...

Just Random..

2010-10-17T03:00:00.001+08:00

"Behind all those clouds, there's always a clear blue sky"..
Just like my background wallpaper.. :)

Patience is Virtue..

2010-10-15T03:00:00.004+08:00

Just because it hasn't happened yet,
doesn't mean it won't...

Sometimes the best things in life would eventually come last.

"Me, Myself & I"

2010-10-14T04:06:00.010+08:00

I always laugh to remember that life is for us to have fun.
I always read to remember that education is all good in life.
I always smile to remember that someone may be falling in love with it.
I always work hard to remind myself that nothing is easy if you don't put your effort in.
I always talk because I'm a social butterfly.
I always give love because that's the way I think I should be doing.
I always think because that's how I get myself into place.
I always give advice because I want to make the World a better place.
I always listen because it helps people to feel that the World is safe.

So laugh, read, and smile to see where life will take you.
Work, talk, give love and think to do the best that you can do.
Give advice and listen just to help everyone else.
But never put anyone else before yourself. :)

Have you ever?!

2010-10-12T15:00:00.002+08:00

Have you ever thought about how you would like to be remembered?

What would you want your legacy to be?

Well, I thought about it before and would like to share some points about it.

I think it's fair to say that mostly people don't really like to think about such questions; perhaps none would like to think about their own death as there's no value in asking and answering such questions. Maybe some will believe that there are other more important things to focus on rather than this. No matter what the reasons are, it can serve a useful purpose from time to time.

Do you know that; by even starting to think about how you would like to be remembered after you're gone, you'll begin to consider how you want to live your life while you're still here. This thinking will actually reflects to us and generates a greater clarity about what's more important to you in the way you want to live your life. And by having more clarity, this will lead us to a better way towards creating and sustaining a successful and fulfilling life.

It's sad to see that many people go through their lives being unaware to what is more important to them and what they could consciously choose for themselves and not just wait for things to come. Well, imagine this, what if *touch wood* something happened to you, will this gonna become more obvious to you? Isn't this will make you pause and reflect on the bigger picture now? The fact is that we're all here only for a finite period of time and no one knows when death will reach us. So rather than wasting anymore time being stuck in the "living dead" category, let's take charge and move forward with purpose and passion.

What I'm saying here is; don't postpone your life anymore. Don't wait anymore. Don't wait till you're dying to really start living. Wake up, your wake up call has arrived. *Snap* Come back and start living it.Well, you can just start by committing in taking all the necessary steps so that you can live more in harmony with the vision you have for your life and your legacy.

"Whatever you need to do and want to do, do it today. There are only (so many) tomorrows."

A Special Day

2010-10-10T01:00:00.003+08:00

10.10.10 A very special day it is..

It only happens once in a lifetime..

So, I would like to wish everyone a very happy 10.10.10 day!

May this special day bring happiness to everyone ..

Enjoy..

:))

I wonder "WHY"..

2010-10-08T02:03:00.002+08:00

Sometimes I wonder, how good If I can read people's mind. lol. Guess not?!

Well, I can never tell what people are thinking and feeling unless they tell me, and usually 80% of them would actually lie about it. I'll ask them, "whats wrong?" and they would normally replied saying "Nothing" and "I'm fine." I sometimes accept this because its easier rather than digging for the truth.

People smile when they want to cry, they laugh when they want to scream and shout. They can just pretend like there's nothing wrong because deep down inside they don't want to face the truth. Things aren't always rainbows and butterflies, sometimes you just gotta scream and cry your angers and sadness to the world, because you can only hold it in for so long before something in you snaps.

So always remember; when you want to cry, cry. When you want to scream, scream. Don't hide behind fake smiles and its OK not to be alright sometimes.

"Make Your Smile Change The World - But Don't Let The World Change Your Smile ."

Please DON'T...

2010-10-06T19:08:00.002+08:00

Please don't lie to me unless you're absolutely sure that I will never find out the truth...

=/

Going Through Shit...

2010-10-06T14:37:00.003+08:00

LISTENING TO SAD SONGS
MAKE ME FEEL LIKE I'M NOT THE ONLY ONE
THAT"S GOING THROUGH SHIT

:(

Just A DREAM...

2010-10-05T23:05:00.001+08:00

Nice..

2010-10-04T02:38:00.001+08:00

Some nice quotes that catches my eyes...

Enough...

2010-10-03T13:14:00.005+08:00

I think for once everyone just need to take a step back and look into the life of others not just ours. I was really sadden by some problem occurred in my group. It's quite an issue to me and also to the rest of the groupie now. We was once a very happy and "no problem" at all group. We will just hangout and chill in a very large group of people. Although it's totally different now from being a large group to a lesser people group. It didn't matter much about the size really. But of cause the more the merrier.. Rite?! :)

Well, every individuals are different. Everyone have their own thinking with their own perception. This is who we are, each special individuals. Sure we all have our flaws, we all have our rough times, we all have heart breaks. But there's a time in your life when you really look into it, and realize that what you have, really doesn't need to be compared to others; It could be so much worse and people deal with it everyday in life, that is so much harder. I think for once, everyone should look past their selfish-ness, their emotions and all their complaining and just look into a brighter side, a side that teaches you that it could be worse whenever it could be. Just like the book of life says, "If it doesn't kill you, it is only making you stronger."

Look at us now.. We are all still in the twenties and we are young. Fine young lads that could possibly have anything and be anyone in life. I guess we should really do is to grow up and stop being paralyzed. Stop swallowing words and stop caring so much on what other people think. It doesn't really matter cause the life that you live is always yours.

But have you ever wondered sometimes, by thinking of every possible way that you could have changed things, made things work and made things last? You spend your days waking up, thinking about it, going through the day thinking about it and going to bed thinking about it - hoping and praying that things will work out and slowly it will be slightly better and yet nothing lasts forever.

We go through our lives thinking about yesterday and not today. Sometimes we're in denial, heartache and regretting. We're young once and we're reckless and yet we're still alive. We all make mistakes, we lose people we love and that's just the way life works. Letting go isn't being weak or giving up but it is just growing up.

Sometimes I just wonder, why can't we be happy for just that moment. I hope that I can be happy in that one moment I don't think about my problems, I only think about all the options I have. I think about all the years ahead of me, think about all the awesome people I've met, Think about all the time that I can spend, about all the adventures, about the love and about all the places that we yet to discover.

For that one moment I believe I will be happy, much more happier than to think of all the problems that we gonna faced, problems that never going to occur to us but we're the ones that going to create it. Can't we just think that happiness is somewhere out there. And put a hope in it to believe that happiness brings us joys and let us rejoice all together. I do believe and I have hope towards it.

No matter what happens, I just realized that we're all going to die, we just don't know when , don't know how, don't know where and we could just die at any moment now but yet we live our lives as if none of that is true. So just fcuk it alrite. Live as happy as possible and live like there's no tomorrow. Hell yeah! :)

Not funny at all...

2010-10-03T02:31:00.003+08:00

It's funny how hello is always accompanied with goodbye.

It's funny how good memories can start to make you cry.

It's funny how much you'd lose if you forgot about your past.

It's funny how friends can just leave you when you're down.

It's funny how when you need someone and they're never around.

It's funny how people change and think they're so much better.

It's funny how many lies can be packed in one message.

It's funny how people forgive even though they can't forget.

It's funny how one night can contain so much regret.

It's funny how words can hurt so much.

It's funny how ironic life turns out to be...

But the funniest part of all is that none of that is funny to me!

I wish I could understand...

2010-10-01T02:28:00.000+08:00

I try so hard and get so little.

I love so much and I get so much hate.

I wish so much and nothing has happened yet.

I just don't fcuking understand but I wish I could.. :(

Tell or not to tell?!

2010-09-30T21:01:00.000+08:00

I'm always torn between wanting to tell my story to everyone and let them know exactly what is in my head or keeping it to myself. The problem is being outwardly unhappy and consistently so pushes people away, no matter if they say they're always there to listen, there is only so much your best friends can listen to. On the other hand, to pretend that everything is fine is to poison yourself from the inside out; it is to ignore who you are and lose yourself. So which is better? To have friends that think you are melodramatic, seeking attention and pessimistic or to drown in your own mind?

Randomly me..

2010-09-29T10:28:00.000+08:00

I always believe in myself- the vision of my future keep my dreams alive despite the challenges along the way. I always told myself not to be afraid of changes, grow and learn as I go. Whatever it is, we always move ahead with confidence and always reach forward not backwards.

Should always look forward to challenge the impossible and risk oneself to the limits as opportunities are just endless. Never quit until you win as we all have greatness within us. We just got to nurture it with Hope and Passion and there will be nothing we can't do.

I know there are maybe times when things aren't the way we hope it to be and we feel like just giving up. Always tell yourself to "NEVER QUIT". When things go wrong as they sometimes will, when the funds are low and the debts are high and when you want to smile but you have to sigh. -- Rest if you must but don't back down and don't you quit.. You can never tell how close you are, it may be near when it seems far. Just stick to the fight even when you're hit to the hardest and always remember that you really mustn't QUIT.

Be positive always to not giving up so easily even before you try. Nothing is really over until you stop trying. Remember never say it's impossible even the word "IMPOSSIBLE" says "I.M.POSSIBLE". So, nothing can really stop us from being positive. I had a lot of ups and downs throughout my life so does each and every human being in the whole wide World. But come to think of it, we just have to always confront and transform all these obstacles into opportunities. Always believe in working hard towards our future and take a step at a time to reach the goals. Do what works best for you and be hopeful as you embrace each moment. My happiness is in my own hands.... for if I keep staying positive, I BELIEVE I can make my dream come true.

Rest assured, I always follow my heart. What I do with my life is my own choice. How I decide to live my life and achieve my goals is always up to me. I'm the key decision maker of my own life. Always be confident and have a strong sense of purpose. I'm doing my best to work extremely hard towards my goals. I never consider the idea of failing. Erm* Maybe at times. lolx.

But most of all, I know who am I and I understand my weakness as well as my strong points. I won't be afraid to be a little different. What I do is; I just follow my heart to the path of my dreams. You may then find that what seem so difficult has just been made RIGHT. :)

So, dare to fail and dare to dream. Opportunities are in our hands. Have faith in yourself and always believe that one day you can and will surely achieve. Keep your dreams alive; reach out and take hold of today!

YOU are "YOU"

2010-09-28T10:54:00.000+08:00

I've always wonder...

Nearly all rich and powerful people are not notably talented, educated, charming or good-looking.

This people become rich and powerful by wanting to be rich and powerful.

The vision of where or who you want to be is the greatest asset you have.

Without having a GOAL it's difficult to score.

So, ask yourself; why do we want to strive for excellence? Is this really important to us?

If yes, how good do you want to be then?

- Quite good
- Good
- Very Good
- Best
- The Very Best

But, have you noticed how the cleverest people at school are not those who make it in life? (Which is very true rite.)

As long as the goal is there, there is no limit to anyone's achievement. So be it, if you are the top achiever in school, if you don't have goals, clear goals in mine. I can say , 80% of you wouldn't succeed. (Just part of my theory)

I've heard a lot of people telling me that, I'll do this and I'll do that if I had the chance. Enough with the "What If".. Stop thinking about it. Whatever it is.. just don't look for the next opportunity. The one you have in hand is the opportunity... We are always waiting for the perfect thing to come. But it almost never happens.

Let me give you an example on this; You're probably working on a project or assignment right now and saying, "This is nothing important and let's just deal with it and get it over with. We'll make the next one good." Whatever you are doing right now, that's the one. Make it the best you possibly can. It may not be great, but at least you'll have the satisfaction of knowing you did the best you possibly could and you may learn something from it.

Opportunities are everywhere. Don't look so far ahead first, it is just the reach of your hands in front of you. So grab it while it's still there. Like what Author Paul Arden said; "It's not how good you are, It's how good you want to be". If you don't have plans and do not have goals, whatever opportunities comes, you will end up losing it.

Always remember this; there's no one night success. People fail, Powerful and Rich people fail before too. 'You fail, and fail again' It doesn't matter. The person who doesn't make mistakes is unlikely to make anything. Benjamin Franklin have had 10,000 ideas that didn't work. But did he failed? Yes. But just look at him, he made history. Isn't he famous? Yes, very famous indeed. Benjamin Franklin understood one theory which he believes that failures and false starts are a precondition of success. Failure was a major contributor to its success. So, in another word, you just got to fail before you succeed. "Learn from your MISTAKES, eventually you'll play your cards right after that".

Well, Success is going from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm. You just got to keep the fire in you fired up and whatever it is, you got to draw the line somewhere too. Right? It's always better to fail in originality, than to succeed in imitation. So, strive on y'all. :)

How Poor People Live

2010-09-27T14:32:00.000+08:00

I read this great short story I received via email few days ago. Perhaps this story will give us a more refreshing perspective on how brilliant life truly is.

One day the father of a rich family took his young son on a business trip to the countryside purpose of showing him how poor people can be. They spent a day and a night at the farm of a very poor family.

When they got back from their trip the father asked his son, "How was the trip?"
His son replied. "Very good, Dad"
"Did you see how poor people can be?" the father asked.
"Yeah," the son quickly replied.
The father then asked, "And what did you learn?"
The son answered, "I saw that we only have one dog at home and they have four. We have a pool that only reaches to the middle of the garden; they have a creek that has no end. We have imported lamps in the garden; they have the moon and all the stars. Our patio only reaches to the front yard, they have the whole horizon."

When the boy was finished, his father was speechless. His son added, "Thanks dad for showing me how poor we are."

Isn't it true it all depends on the way you look things? If you have love, friends, family, health, good humor and a positive attitude towards life.. you've got everything! You can't buy any of these things. You can have all the material possessions you can imagine, provisions for the future, etc. etc. But if you are poor of spirit, then you have absolutely nothing.

"What If"

2010-09-26T14:48:00.000+08:00

So what if...

Your favorite football team lost again and this time was at the hands of a more lowly ranked opposition... so what? You were planning a picnic today, but now there is a cold wind and is pouring with rain... so what? You just finish washing your car, the next thing you know a bird fly pass and drop a fresh poo on to your now shiny machine... so what? Your friend has spilled his or her coffee on your clean and freshly ironed new shirt, just as you were having a drink with him or her at the coffee shop nearby... so what? The trip that you've planned for so long got to be canceled; the car model that you were planning to buy next year has stopped manufacturing; the department store has run out of your size in those jeans that you've long ed for... so what?

So what?! So What?! SO WHAT?!

LIGHTEN UP!! These things are NOT important. It is mostly just a little anger, a little not satisfied, and a little thinking and it is definitely a waste of your time and your energy on it. Haha. Actually why don't we just face it. Have a good laugh on it. It really would be a funny sight to see, don't you think? Imagine that. :)

Simple Letters

2010-09-24T02:26:00.000+08:00

My friend forwarded this to me, check this out;

LIFE - 4 simple letters, yet so complicated
LOVE - 4 simple letters, yet so confusing
DESTINY - 7 simple letters, yet so unpredictable
FEELINGS - 8 simple letters, yet so unexplainable
WORDS - 5 simple letters, yet there aren't enough to express
REGRETS - 6 simple letters, yet they never seem to disappear
SILENCE - 7 simple letters, yet it can be so loud
TIME - 4 simple letters, yet there is never enough
SADNESS - 7 simple letters, yet it lingers everywhere
PAIN - 4 simple letters, yet it takes so long to heal
MISTAKES- 8 simple letters, yet they can never be erased
BEAUTY - 6 simple letters, yet so hard to see

Ain't this true.. xD

The person I am..

2010-09-21T01:32:00.000+08:00

My life is passing by too fast to enjoy it I guess.. When I leave I will be homesick. But I think I'll miss so much to make me felt heartsick. I'll also miss the people who left a hand print on my heart and also the ones who threw me away and made me stronger. I know that friends come and go so quickly to even say I miss you. And yet I'm the person who loved too much and got nothing in return. Well, that's me and that's life!

STOP...

2010-09-19T12:44:00.000+08:00

Stop...... Stop thinking already! Just tell that voice to "Shut the fcuk up and listen for a while!" You should know who I mean, right? He is the voice with all the answers. The voice that knows everything, the voice that has an opinion on everything and is never wrong! He is the voice you are listening to right now. Can you hear him? Yes It's your inner voice. And I would like to call him as Mr. Inneryuh...

Mr. Inneryuh is the voice in your head. He never ever shuts up and you can hear him all the time. Your relationship with him is unique and personal. He's your closest friend, your constant guide and sometimes your worst enemy. He has been educated by you and also taken lessons from whoever or whatever that had been appeared in your life; family, friends, colleagues, relatives, partner, television, Internet, radio, newspapers, movies, books and etc. His one and only, but extremely influential skill is to constantly regurgitate information he has received.

Mr. Inneryuh may speak loudly and decisively but he has no set of opinions, values and morals. However, he directs your knowledge, your fears, your desires, your passions and your opinions to be used always as his training. We always describe him as our thinking or something related to it. Mr. Inneryuh is always available to learn new stuff, as you grows he grows and when you have the opportunity to change his education, you'll change what he says to you. I guess we have to spent all of our life to develop Mr. Inneryuh and part of it should be good and some part of it should be not.

There is a saying that states, "If you continue to do what you have always done, you will continue to be who you have always been!" And "If you continue to think in the way you have always thought, you will continue to feel as you have always felt." In order to change the way you feel, you need to change the way you think. This means, we need to start re-educate Mr. Inneryuh and your life might never be the same again!

Setting GOALs

2010-09-10T00:31:00.002+08:00

Goals are important! I guess everyone knows that to be true. There would hardly be a single person over the age of 5, anywhere on this planet, who has not set at least one goal. I have set thousand of goals! Haven't you?

Setting goals is EASY! But achieving it is an entirely different matter.

If you are nodding, as you sigh disappointingly in memory of your many unachieved goals, take heart... even the greatest achievers of this world have set goals and not attained them. The truth is, setting a goal and failing to achieve it, is not necessarily a failure at all. Instead by actually having a goal is truly a great start. But first we need to define our goals.

In defining each goal...

To know what you want.

To know when you want it.

To describe why you want it.

Have a basic idea of how you are going to reach the goal.

After defining it, write all the details of your goal on a card.

Read the card over and over again, many times each day, until your goal has been realized.

Do it for a day and when you get to the end of the day, decide to do it for another day. After you have done it for a week, do it for another week, a month, a year, a lifetime.

However, completing your goals in all areas of your live will greatly assist in developing a stronger belief in how brilliant you truly are.

Goals give us a purpose. they give us a target. Goals allow us to become more enthusiastic about where we are headed. It gives me purpose with passion and it motivates me. It does not matter one little but as to whether or not I achieve that goal. If I only make it half way, the result will still be wonderful.

Imagine this, what if you could wake up everyday with a hand on your heart, honest to goodness, absolutely genuine feeling and belief that YOU ARE GREAT, YOU ARE BRILLIANT, YOU ARE JUST FANTASTIC? Yes, you can.. I can.. REALLY can.

Just feel free to take the goal for your own. Choose it for yourself. Start each day with a routine commitment of standing in front of the mirror before you leave your home and say to the reflection you see...

"You are to have a fantastic day, because... YOU ARE GREAT!"

Selamat Hari Raya

2010-09-10T00:00:00.000+08:00

Wishing all muslims friends SELAMAT HARI RAYA AIDIL FITRI!

Travel safe, enjoy all the glorious food and have a great "Balik Kampung" spirit.

To all others, HAPPY HOLIDAY. :)

"As a man thinketh in his heart"

2010-09-09T02:42:00.002+08:00

King Solomon wrote a proverb which said, "As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he". It's not gender specific, it applies to men and women alike. Simply put, it says, "How you feel about yourself - in your heart of hearts, in the quiet inner recesses of the private and personal you, the thoughts and feelings you have from time to time - THAT IS WHO YOU REALLY ARE! And what YOU think about you is, without doubt, the most important opinion of all. Praise and encouragement from others can certainly benefit your self image, but it is what you think that matters most.

Endurance

2010-09-07T02:23:00.000+08:00

I always envy that some people have the endurance muscles. These people are able to exert themselves and go for a very long distances for a period of time.

I guess I really need to train well on my endurance in order to get physically fit. I also need to get my stamina back on track. When it comes to exercising. In fact I would rather do more on my cardio then lifting weights.

I am challenging myself to have a 5KM non-stop run in 30 minutes. Giving myself a one month training on that. I hope that I can overcome the challenge. Not the fastest time tho' but I will increase by time. I seriously need lots of motivation for me to run.

I hope I train well on it. I am focusing more on how to help boost my stamina and learn to endure. And not just endure, but to endure with joy. I must say I stink at endurance, but what I need is just patience and faith at the moment. Well, at least i am still pushing forward so that should count for something right?

September by Daughtry

2010-09-06T02:12:00.003+08:00

It's the September month tho'. Dedicate this song to all September babies. :)

Who is "ME"

2010-09-06T00:48:00.000+08:00

Who am I?

i am an ordinary guy, an average joe, a freelancer, a music lover, a son , a brother, a friend and a whole slew of other things. do any one of these things define me more than any other?

No.

They work together to make me the magical person that i am. i am just kidding, but honestly each of these parts of me define me.

There is a part of getting older that is amazing, and that is self-actualiztion. realizing that who you are is not dependent on any outside forces. i cannot allow anyone else define my worth and value. i cannot allow others to diminish who and what i am, neither can i allow any of the labels control me. i only wish that i knew this as much when i was in high school when i needed it the most.

i'm not the extraordinary person i know, nor the best son, brother or friend. there is always someone who is a better son, sibling, friend or leader. i know i have my own mission in this life. i know that no matter what people say, think or feel about me that i have a purpose. a calling or a divine nature. i am not perfect, great or even good for that matter, but in the end i am who I am. a man that desire much.

i'm proud to be the person who doesn't really write well or speak good and who always gets in trouble for plowing through life, but i am who i am. at least for now. but i know i will change again, someday.

i love this quote by ralph waldo emerson

" To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment"

It's up to YOU

2010-09-05T15:17:00.000+08:00

One song can spark a moment,

One flower can wake the dream.

One tree can start a forest,

One bird can herald spring.

One smile begins a friendship,

One handclasp lifts a soul.

One star can guide a ship at sea,

One word can frame the goal.

One vote can change the nation,

One sunbeam lights a room.

One candle wipes out darkness,

One laugh will conquer gloom.

One step must start each journey,

One word must start each prayer.

One hope will raise our spirits,

One touch can show you care.

One voice can speak with wisdom,

One heart can know what's true.

One life can make the difference,

You see, it's just up to YOU!

Wondering

2010-09-04T02:05:00.002+08:00

While you are reading this, I just want you to think back when you were in high school or after leaving high school. What type of personality did you have? What kind of person you are? Are you a better person or worse?

I've been wondering about this lately because I remember having so much energy and enthusiasm. I remember feeling like I could do anything. However, I have to note some good changes about me that have come with maturity. I guess I am more mellow now and I feel like part of my terrible temper is gone. I am more comfortable with myself and able to control myself better against negativity.

And now, I have decided to stick on being as mellow as possible and as happy I can. I'm enjoying being that now. I enjoy learning how to be a better person, a better son, brother and friend everyday. But I just need to do more. I'm working out on having a better positive outlook as well. I want to work more on my enthusiasm for life and to shine forth my personality.

So, my hope is that I can work on these outlooks and really start to enjoy my life with great passion and enthusiasm. But most of all, I got to be HAPPY about it. That's me and that's what life gonna be. :)

Thoughts About LIFE

2010-09-02T12:38:00.001+08:00

A short walk is so difficult,
when no one walks with you.
But a long journey is just like few steps
when you walk with someone
who loves and cares for you.

We always look and care for the person
whom we love the most.
But we fail to look back at those
who love us the most.

Death’s not the greatest loss in life..
The greatest loss is when
relationships die inside us while
we are still alive...

Life is not about the people
who act true to your face..
Its about the people who
remain true behind your back..

Time decides whom you meet in life…
Your heart decides whom you want in life..
but your behavior decides
who will stay in your life...

You can win life by all means..
And Yes.. If you simply avoid two things...
1. COMPARING - with others
2. EXPECTING FOR MORE - from others

Life will eventually be more beautiful!

September 2010

2010-09-01T12:50:00.001+08:00

September is really a busy month for me.

Lots and lots of things to do this month.

Work schedule. Datelines to meet.

Not to forget about events, birthdays and weddings that needed to attend.

Festive days of Hari Raya also falls on this month.

Really a pack schedule this month.

But what's best about this month is my BIRTHDAY falls on this month too. :)

Happy Birthday Malaysia

2010-08-31T21:45:00.001+08:00

Happy 53rd Merdeka to everyone!

We had a boring independence day this year.

Not happening @ all. Not in a mood @ all.

M'sia 53 years of celebration is simply nothing @ all.

Just hope that the 1 Malaysia celebration would be better.

Booyah~!

Just A Dream by Nelly

2010-08-30T02:09:00.000+08:00

Dream. ;))

Birthday Shoutout

2010-08-22T21:42:00.001+08:00

Happy Birthday wish to JT.

May you are blessed with good health, good wealth, good life and happiness @ all time.

Have a blast one ya. ;))

Wonderwall (Tyler Ward Acoustic Cover)

2010-08-12T15:49:00.001+08:00

Nice. :)

Just The Way You Are

2010-07-30T15:27:00.001+08:00

Love this song so much. :)

Birthday Shoutout

2010-07-27T21:38:00.000+08:00

Happy Birthday wishes to both Dad and SY.

May both are blessed with great health, great wealth and happiness @ all time.

Sit back and enjoy your day today. :)

Body Art - Getting Inked

2010-07-18T12:22:00.001+08:00

I've been waiting to get myself inked for quite some time since the last one (ermm* ages ago). But could not really decide if I really want to do it again without regretting it myself later.

Well, getting inked is expensive first of all and secondly, it's a permanent thing that is gonna be on your body. Third, must really-really be affirmative and sure on what to tattoo on your body. If not, you'll gonna pay more for tattoo removal after that. Haha. No kidding. And lastly, no regrets of doing it cos getting inked is just like inflicting pain to your body parts during the entire process. And best part is the pain is kinda addictive. *What the hell rite. (Crazy me) lolx.

Yup. Back to the topic of getting inked, even if i've decided to go ahead with the idea, i might have to find something perfect to be inked to my body. haa. even so, which part of the body shall it be.. You guess?!

Most probably getting inked on September after my B'day. Yay~ :)

Well, let us enjoy the body art together. B-E-A-U-T-I-F-U-L !

Sound Advice from Warren Buffet

2010-07-12T21:55:00.000+08:00

Warren Buffet - The World's 2nd Richest Man.

His sound advice to all:

1. Don't buy more than what you "really need".

2. You are what you are.

3. Always think how you can accomplish things economically.

4. Set goals and make sure you focus on them.

5. Don't try to show off, just be yourself and do what you enjoy doing.

6. Money doesn't create man but it is the man who created money.

7. Live your life as simple as you are.

After all it's your life then why give chance to others to rule our life.

Let us choose a simpler and smarter way to live.

"I always knew I was going to be rich. I don't think I ever doubted it for a minute."

- Warren Buffet

Just want you to know

2010-06-28T20:03:00.001+08:00

Dear You,

You're probably thinking I've forgotten all about you by now, but that's far from it. I have missed you every waking day & my heart still hurts, but I'm getting better. I continue to smile & still go on without you. I know I have missed you, but I have kept it all inside of me, only for me to know. I still wonder about your doings, how you are, what you're doing, what we used to talk about, to the laugh in your voice. Just, everything. I miss it all.

However, I feel that the parting of us was for the best, because everything happens for a reason. Should destiny put us into a crossing road in the future, that is when I will see you again. Until then, remember this; No matter what, even through the screaming fights, the disagreements, mistakes & the tears we've cried; though I saw this as a possible outcome, I took the risk & gave you my all. Never, ever, did I give up on you. Do not give up on yourself. Believe. Anything is possible. And if you ever need a helping hand, do not hesitate to ask. I may be far away, but I will always be in reach.

Love you forever. GBU! :)

Yours Faithfully,
Me

Just be YOURSELF

2010-06-20T21:34:00.000+08:00

To be who you are is to be enough.

To share who you are is to share enough.

To do what you love is to do enough.

Never doubt your worth, JUST BE YOURSELF.

Only "ME" time

2010-06-12T11:47:00.001+08:00

Well since young. I would just love to hangout with ma peeps and doesn't like to be left alone. I just got to be in a group and by hanging out with my groupie would be the best time of all. Haha. I would have never imagined myself going out alone or hangout with me myself alone.

But, I guess people do change. I somewhat enjoy the only "ME" time now. I guess we all do need some alone time sometimes. I do really treasure the time spent with myself nowadays, going out to the mall, having a good cup of hot chocolate and a good read of me books. Or even, enjoy a movie at home on a lazy couch noming on some chips or popcorns. Mmm-mmm*. There's actually a lot to do with ourself; we can do gardening, clean up rooms or closets or some other hobbies that we enjoy doing it. For me, reading a book is part of me hobby. Love it. :)

All in all, I do really wonder if this is the nature of me busy career or simply aging that leads me to the change. lolx.

Well, I just feel that it's good to have some personal time and space once in a while. Period.

Just SMILE !

2010-06-08T17:57:00.005+08:00

There is no value in life except what you choose to place upon it and no happiness in any place except what you bring to it yourself. You are as happy as you follow yourself to be, so why be unhappy rite?!

So just SMILE ! ♥

Just Because

2010-06-06T02:34:00.002+08:00

Just Because – I’m quiet – it doesn’t mean I don’t have a lot to say

Just Because – I appear happy – doesn’t mean everything’s ok

Just Because – I’m sarcastic – doesn’t mean I don’t take things seriously

Just Because – I forgive – doesn’t mean I forget

Just Because – I don’t listen to you – doesn’t mean I don’t care

Just Because – I’m gullible – doesn’t mean you can lie to me

Just Because – I’m stubborn – doesn’t mean I’m not easy going

Just Because – I don’t show my feelings – doesn’t mean I don’t have any

Just Because – I don’t say I love you – doesn’t mean I don’t

Just Because – I’m honest – doesn’t mean I’m outspoken

Just Because – I’m not like you – doesn’t mean I’m weird

Just Because – I’m unsure – doesn’t mean I’m afraid

I Love You..

2010-05-22T17:49:00.005+08:00

"I LOVE YOU".

It takes me one second to say it, one minute to explain it and a lifetime to show it & to prove it. But now I'm already spreading it. ♥

Haven't met you yet!

2010-05-04T01:35:00.003+08:00

Sometimes it's just hard to run from a feeling that hunts me every now and then, it's just painful to tell my heart that I don't really need it. I just keep on pretending that it’s better to be alone when in fact I feel so empty in me. But come to think of it, why take chances if I see no hope? Why try if there’s nothing to win for? The best is; I just got to wait for that someone special to come when it's time. Never ever hurry. It's only that I haven't met you yet~!

Never ever take away HOPE from me..

2010-04-12T18:45:00.003+08:00

I can't believe, you found me here

You saved me in the nick of time

Just when I thought nobody cared

You reached out and with your hand, took mine

You know just how to pull me through

That’s what I love about you

It might be dark, and I might be scared

But what ever this life brings

Knowing that you will always be there

I can take on anything

If you're beside me in this fight

I know I'll make it through the night

You give me hope

And I can face another day

All it takes is love and faith

And the courage to believe

You give me hope

And there’s nothing I can't do

I get all my strength from you

Saying you will stand by me

You give me HOPE..

LIFE GOES ON !!!

2010-04-01T12:03:00.002+08:00

Life is too short..
Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness..
Laugh when you can,
apologize when you should
and let go of what you can't change.
Love deeply and forgive quickly.
Take chances, gave everything
and have no regrets.
Life is just too short to be unhappy,
you have to take the good with the bad.
Smile when you're sad,
Love what you've got,
and always remember what you had.
Always forgive but never forget,
learn from your mistakes
but never regret.
People change and things go wrong,
but always remember...
LIFE GOES ON !!!

Nothin' On You

2010-03-30T00:25:00.004+08:00

This song is currently stuck in my head now.. Nothin' On You by B.O.B ft. Bruno Mars.. Enjoy~

Weird Dreams

2010-03-12T05:21:00.003+08:00

Woke up and couldn't get back to sleep after the dream..
Yet another weird dream that I don't want to have..
Why do all this weird dreams keep on haunting me in my sleep..
Do dreams ever comes to reality?
Do dreams exists?
If they do, then I should feel the fear cause these few nights these weird weird dreams just scare the hell out of me..
What can I do to stop all these weird dreams from entering my brains when I sleep..
When can it be stop..
Someone please help~ T.T

Being Simplified

2010-03-03T03:34:00.036+08:00

I just want to

SIMPLIFY MY LIFE

By living a HAPPIER life~ ♥

NEVER ALONE

2010-03-03T00:51:00.010+08:00

May the angels protect you
Trouble neglect you
And heaven accept you when it's time to go home
May you always have plenty
Your glass never empty
Know in your belly
You're never alone

May your tears come from laughing
You find friends worth having
With every year passing
They mean more than gold
May you win but stay humble
Smile more than grumble
And know when you stumble
You're never alone

Never alone
Never alone
I'll be in every beat of your heart
When you face the unknown
Wherever you fly
This isn't goodbye
My love will follow you stay with you
Baby you're never alone

Well, I have to be honest
As much as I want it
I'm not gonna promise that cold winds won't blow
So when hard times have found you
And your fear surround you
Wrap my love around you
You're never alone

Never alone
Never alone
I'll be in every beat of your heart
When you face the unknown
Wherever you fly
This isn't goodbye
My love will follow you stay with you
Baby you're never alone

May the angels protect you
Trouble neglect you
And heaven accept you when it's time to go home
So when hard times have found you
And your fear surround you
Wrap my love around you
You're never alone

Never alone
Never alone
I'll be in every beat of your heart
When you face the unknown
Wherever you fly
This isn't goodbye
My love will follow you stay with you
Baby you're never alone
My love will follow you stay with you
Baby you're never alone

Random-LY

2010-03-01T23:48:00.010+08:00

“Staying up all night is a waste of sleeping,
and a waste of sleeping is a waste of dreaming,
and dreaming is important because the more dreams you have,
the better chance of you having one coming true.”

Be A "REALIST"

2010-03-01T23:45:00.006+08:00

Be a Realist.. Altho' people say we are fools..

Because I fight for what I believe, and let no one stand in my way, People say I am a fool?

Because I never settle for second best, but always go for the next, I am a fool?

Because I profess my love freely without restraint, I am a fool?

Because I believe in the good of humanity, and trust to openly, I am a fool?

Because I dream of better times, where I will be with the love of my life in a world free of chaos, I am a fool?

Well, then I will be a fool.

Just know, that I am not alone.

When God created man, even with all the risks, to have it turn out to be a complete failure, I suppose he was a fool.

When the colonies of Europe begin dreaming of land, of power, of interaction with new colonies, I suppose they were fools.

When Obama put his name in for the presidential ballot, dreaming of his chance to become president, i suppose he was a fool.

When Martin Luther King, perhaps the biggest idealist in history, had a dream, that his people would one day be free, I suppose he was a fool.

The purpose of this, is that all great men were fools. The men who made all you see when you look around possible, they were fools. But they made a difference. Fools make a difference. I want to make a difference.

I want one day, for children to look in history books across the world, see my picture, and say "See that man? He made a difference. He made the world a better place. He was a dreamer. He was a fool. ANd I want to be just like him."

So, call me a fool, because I swing for the fence. But know this. Its men like me, that people like you can even have a reality to hold on to.

So, be a realist. See the world for what it really is. I'll handle the history for you, while you sit and mock in the background, at this fool...

Things in LIFE

2010-02-28T04:32:00.008+08:00

As I've grown, I've come to realized and learned several things.. The things in LIFE~

That life is always full of disappointments and people you trusted will sooner or later let you down.
I've learned that often those you love will love someone else and there's only one way to fall; fall fast and fall hard.
I've learned that out of thousands of smiles, it takes one to touch your heart.
I've found that words can be deceiving, but the truth always lies in a person's eyes.
I've learned that everything can change in the blink of an eye and tears often come without invitation.
I've learned that crying can make us stronger and there is never too much love to go around.
I've learned that prejudice helps no one and that weapons don't hurt people, it is just the people who hurt people.
I've learned that sticks and stones may leave cuts and bruises but harsh words leave the scars.
I've found that every time you give someone a piece of your heart, it's a piece that you will never get back.
I've learned the past is meant to be put behind us and we can't dwell on regrets, for what's done is done.
I've learned that trusting yourself is the first step and that forgiving is the second.
I've found that family isn't always about blood and everyone is always someone's hero.
I've learned life is unexpected and that GOD can do anything. Really ANYTHING~
I've learned some things aren't meant to be understood and that only time heals.
I've found that imagination is our greatest gift and that we are meant to dream for a reason.
I've learned it is never too late to fall in love and that being "beautiful" is all on the inside.

Mistakes are our best teachers and everything happens, it happens for a reason. Only then can you live life to it's full and true potential.

Live life to the fullest cause Life's always like that~ ♥

WHATYA WANT FROM ME

2010-02-25T19:55:00.001+08:00

There might have been a time
When I would give myself away
Oooh once upon a time I didn't give a damn
But now, here we are so whataya want from me
Whataya want from me

Just don't give up I'm workin it out
Please don't give in, I won't let you down
It messed me up, need a second to breathe
Just keep coming around
Hey, whataya want from me
Whataya want from me
Whataya want from me

Just let "ME" be "ME"

2010-02-25T15:25:00.011+08:00

"I'm the one who has to die when its time for me to die,
So let me live my life, the way I want to." Thank you~

Quarter-Life Crisis

2010-02-25T02:30:00.007+08:00

Quarter-life crisis starts when you stop going along with the crowd and start realizing that there are many things about yourself that you didn't know and may not like.

You start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or two, but then get scared because you barely know where you are now. You start realizing that people are selfish and that, maybe, those friends that you thought you were so close to aren't exactly the greatest people you have ever met, and the people you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones. What you don't recognize is that they are realizing that too, and aren't really cold, catty, mean or insincere, but that they are as confused as you.

You look at your job... and it is not even close to what you thought you would be doing, or maybe you are looking for a job and realizing that you are going to have to start at the bottom and that scares you. Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what others are doing and find yourself judging more than usual because suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life and are constantly adding things to your list of what is acceptable and what isn't.

One minute, you are insecure and then the next, secure. You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your life. You feel alone and scared and confused.

Suddenly, change is the enemy and you try and cling on to the past with dear life, but soon realize that the past is drifting further and further away, and there is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward.

You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do such damage to you. Or you lie in bed and wonder why you can't meet anyone decent enough that you want to get to know better. Or maybe you love someone but love someone else too and cannot figure out why you are doing this because you know that you aren't a bad person.

Random hook ups starts to look cheap. Getting wasted and acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic.

You go through the same emotions and questions over and over again, and talk about it with your peeps and it is about the same topics everytime because you cannot seem to make a decision. You worry about money, the future and making a life for yourself... What you may not realize is that everyone reading this relates to it.

We are in our best of times and also our worst of times, trying as hard as we can to figure this whole thing out. Aren't you just confused about LIFE?

Irony of LOVE

2010-02-14T03:18:00.009+08:00

THE GREATEST IRONY OF LOVE...

Loving the right person at the wrong time.
Having the wrong person when the time is right.
Finding out that you love someone right after that person walks out of your life.

Gong Xi~ Gong Xi~

2010-02-14T02:22:00.002+08:00

Wishing everyone HAPPY Chinese New Year & Gong Xi Gong Xi Fa Da Cai~!

May this TIGER year brings mighty roaring health, luck and wealth to everyone.
And hope everyone be blessed in this Miao Miao 2010 year~

It is time again.. for family reunion, friends gathering, gambling, house visiting, CNY food, Thani & RED packets a.k.a ANGPOWS.. Woot* Woot*

Opps~ Not to forget.. it's also Valentine's Day.. Wishing everyone a Happy Valentine's Day.
May this TIGER year brings more happiness to all of you..

Cheers to all*

The Law of LOVE

2010-02-12T03:25:00.013+08:00

Fall in love only when you're READY,Not when you're LONELY.

The Secrets Law of LOVE~

Random | 090210

2010-02-09T02:52:00.002+08:00

Life is not for us to casually stroll through it nor avoiding all the problems that will hit on us, but instead we need to make the most out of things, grab each opportunity with both hands and love like you've never been hurt before.

You just got to dream and think BIG, because life is a game and you don't want to just win it or lose it by just playing by the rules, you'll only lose by not giving it a TRY. Every great achievement was once considered Impossible... But you've just got to make it POSSIBLE~!

If Only I Can Turn Back Time

2010-02-04T19:47:00.008+08:00

I AM RESIGNING and I AM HEREBY OFFICIALLY TENDERING MY RESIGNATION AS AN ADULT!
I have decided I would like to accept the responsibilities of a six-year-old again!
I want to go down to McDonald's and munch the fries and their Happy Meals.
I want to think that M&M's are better than money because you can eat them.
I want to eat a whole packet of Tim tams without feeling guilty afterwards.
I want to return to when all you knew were colors, multiplication, tables and nursery rhymes.
I want to watch thunder-cats, transformers or even He-man without feeling boring.
I want to return to when you didn't know and you didn't care.
I want to remember the whole morning was filled of what your Mom had packed for lunch and the whole afternoon what you were having for dinner.
I want to just remember how a simple matchbox car or a set of LEGO represented a whole week's worth of entertainment.
I want to remember when you actually had imaginary friends, when magic really existed and when 'Jaws' didn't look fake at all.
And sometimes all I ever wanted to think is that if this World is fair. (Guess not)
Whether that everyone is honest and GOOD would always triumph over evil.
And to think that when a member of the of the opposite sex was just some annoying disturbance. Haha~!
When friends were real and you didn't care if they were short, tall, fat, skinny, pink, green or from a whole other planet, it just didn't matter... until others told you differently!
I want to believe that anything is possible and all you have to do is just Dream.
I want it to be unknown to me the complexities of life and to be completely ecstatic by the little things again like the sound of the Mr. Roti man! ~Ding.. DING.. Ding..
I DON'T want to know of work, money, friendship, relationships, popularity or even footballs!
I just want to believe in the power of smiles, hugs, a kind word, truth, justice, peace, dreams and human kind. And I want to believe that all adults must know everything. (With the "word WHY" always pop up out of curiosity) lol*
So here's my money, credit cards, handphones, car and my adolescence.

How GOOD, IF ONLY I CAN TURN BACK TIME~! ♥

TODAY is a gift

2010-02-04T18:45:00.003+08:00

Imagine there is a bank account that credits your account each morning with RM 86,400.
It carries over no balance from day to day.
Every evening the bank deletes whatever part of the balance you failed to use during the day. What would you do? Draw out every cent, of course? Rite~!

Eventually, each of us has such a bank in life and It's named as "TIME".
Every morning, it credits you with 86,400 seconds.
Every night it writes off as lost, whatever of this you have failed to invest to a good purpose. It carries over no balance and it allows no over draft.
Each day it opens a new account for you.
Each night it burns the remains of the day.
If you fail to use the day's deposits, the loss is yours.
There is no drawing against "tomorrow."
You must live in the present on today's deposits.
Invest it so as to get from it the utmost in health, happiness and success!
The clock is running~! Make the most out of it today.

To realize the value of ONE YEAR, just ask a student who failed a grade.

To realize the value of ONE MONTH, just ask a mother who has given birth to a premature baby.

To realize the value of ONE WEEK, just ask the editor of a weekly newspaper.

To realize the value of ONE HOUR, just ask the lovers who are waiting to meet.

To realize the value of ONE MINUTE, just ask a person who just missed a train.

To realize the value of ONE SECOND, just ask someone who just avoided an accident.

To reality the value of ONE MILLISECOND, just ask the person who won a silver medal at the Olympics.

Treasure every moment that you have! And treasure it more because you shared it with someone who are just special, special enough to spend the time with. And remember time waits for no one.

As Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery and Today is a gift. That's why its called the "PRESENT". ♥

Life has now been explained to you

2010-02-03T18:59:00.003+08:00

On the first day God created the dog. God said, "Sit all day by the door of your house and bark at anyone who comes in or walks past. I will give you a life span of twenty years." The dog said, "That's too long to be barking. Give me ten years and I'll give you back the other ten."
So God agreed.

On the second day God created the monkey. God said, "Entertain people, do monkey tricks and make them laugh. I'll give you a twenty-year life span." The monkey said, "Monkey tricks for twenty years? I don't think so. Dog gave you back ten, so that's what I'll do too, okay?"
And God agreed.

On the third day God created the cow. "You must go to the field with the farmer all day long and suffer under the sun, have calves, and give milk to support the farmer. I will give you a life span of sixty years."
The cow said, "That's kind of a tough life you want me to live for sixty years. Let me have twenty and I'll give back the other forty."
And God agreed again.

On the fourth day God created man. God said, "Eat, sleep, play, marry and enjoy your life. I'll give you twenty years."
Man said, "What? Only twenty years? Tell you what, I'll take my twenty, and the forty the cow gave back, and the ten the monkey gave back, and the ten the dog gave back, that makes eighty, okay?"

Okay," said God, "You've got a deal."

So that is why the first twenty years we eat, sleep, play, and enjoy ourselves; the next forty years we slave in the sun to support our family; the next ten years we do monkey tricks to entertain the grandchildren; and the last ten years we sit on the front porch and bark at everyone.

Life has now been explained to you.

Life's Like That

2010-02-02T20:55:00.002+08:00

Sometimes people come into your life & you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or help you figure out who you are & or who you want to become..

You never know who these people may be (possibly your roommate, family, god-siblings, long lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger), but when you lock eyes with them, you know at the very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.

Sometime things will happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, & unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming these obstacles that you would have never realized your true potential, strength, will power, or heart. Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by mean of good luck.

Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness & sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without this small test, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. It would be safe & comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.

The people that you meet who affect your life, and the success and downfalls gives you experience, help to create who you are and who you will become; even the bad experiences are learned from. In fact, they are the most poignant ones.

If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love & how to open your heart & eyes to things.

Make everyday count. Appreciate every moment & take from those moments everything you could possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people that you have never talked to before & actually listen... Let yourself fall in love again, break free, and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right too.

Tell yourself that you are a great individual & believe in yourself. For if you don't believe in yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you. You can make your life anything you wish... Create your own life & then go all out & live it with absolutely NO REGRETS. Most importantly, if you love someone tell him or her, for you NEVER know what tomorrow may have in store. And lastly, learn a lesson in life each day you live, Live HIGH.

Today is the tomorrow you were worried about yesterday.. Was it worth it?

Life: Don't be aftaid to take chances! ♥

2010-02-02T18:39:00.002+08:00

As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down, probably will. You'll have your heart broken and you'll break others' hearts. You'll fight with your best friend or maybe even get so close with them, and you'll cry because time is flying by. So, laugh often, forgive freely, and love like you've never been hurt before. ♥

Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances. you just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they mean to you and tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand, comfort a friend, fall asleep, stay up late and smile until your face hurts. Don't be afraid to take chances and most of all, live in the moment because every second you spend angry or upset is a second of happiness you can never get back. ♥

0102 | 2010

2010-02-01T20:22:00.002+08:00

It's 0102 | 2010.. Such a coincidence~! So I would like to share things I've learned in life:-

I've learned that something that you do in an instant, can give you heartache for life.

I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words, it may be that last time you see them.

I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I've learned that either you control your attitude, or it controls you.

I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you are down, will be the one who helps you get up.

I've learned that sometimes when i am angry i have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them too, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you learned from them, and less to do with how many years you have lived.

I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others, but sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I've learned that just because two people argue, doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do love each other.

I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret, it may change your life forever.

I've learned that sometimes the people that you love most in life, are taken from you too soon.

I've learned that you can't make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved, and the rest is up to them.

I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just won't care back.

I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and just seconds to destroy it.

I've learned that it's not what you have in life, but who you have that counts.

I've learned that you can keep going, long after you think you can't.

I've learned that their are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.

I've learned that even when you feel you have no more to give, a friend cries out and you find the strength to help.

I've learned that our backgrounds and circumstances may have influenced our lives, but we are responsible for who we become.

Life's unpredictable. So love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don't and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said that it had to be easy, they just promised it would be worth it.

Derek 101 : Take Change of Your Life

2010-01-28T12:00:00.002+08:00

Don't be a passive bystander in your life! Get in the game the sooner the better.

Sometimes it can be easy to think that we have little to no control over what happens, but nothing could be farther from the truth. While others certainly have a say in things, you're in charge of the direction of your life. It begins by thinking about the sort of life you'd like yo live and making some decisions about your willingness to do what it takes to bring that about.

So the sky being the limit, dream your dreams, capture them in the way of goals. What do you want: good friends, good grades, playing sports, a good relationship with your mom and dad, a spectacular future? You can have these things. They begin with the choices you make, So, don't be passive: Even if your life seems hampered by obstacles and challenges, all these are but mere stepping stones to becoming stronger and more determined to create the life you want.

Believe that you can do it. Start shaping the direction of your life today.

Derek 101

Derek 101 : Little Things Matter

2010-01-27T14:20:00.003+08:00

Probably we don't always know when the little things we do make a difference to others, but that doesn't make them any less important.

Has someone ever put an arm around you when you were afraid? Has someone smiled at you when you were feeling out of place? Has someone offered you a shoulder when your heart was broken? When a person is feeling sad or hurt, the loneliness of the moment can be eased by the kind word of a friend or the sincere smile of a stranger.

If we took the time to simply connect in the most effortless and uncomplicated ways, we could have an impact for the good on those fellow travelers we chance to encounter on this journey of life. Continue to do those little things that can make immeasurable differences in the souls of those you help.

Derek 101

Just some random post about me

2010-01-26T19:12:00.003+08:00

Derek; means the ruler of the people and power of the tribe..

Born in September; Loves to chat. Loves those who love them. Doesn't pretend. Gets angry often. Makes right choices. Treats friends importantly. Brave and fearless. Always making friends. Does not harm others. It is all about love and fairness. Easily hurt but recovers easily. Opinionated. Does not care to control emotions. Knows what to do, to have fun. Unpredictable and extreme

A Virgo; The Perfectionist, Always want the last word. Argumentative. Very smart. Eager, Hardworking, Loyal. Easy to talk to. Hard to please. Practical and very fussy.

Birth Date No. 8; They are the problem solvers. They are professional, blunt and to the point, have good judgment and are decisive. They have grand plans and like to live the good life. They take charge of people They view people objectively. They let you know in no uncertain terms that they are the boss!

Very very true! xD

Derek 101 : Learn from Difficult Experiences

2010-01-26T01:15:00.006+08:00

If you've weathered a difficult time, look for the ways you've become stronger and wiser.

Have you ever broken off a friendship or relationship with a special someone and thought you'd never fall in love again? When the next special someone came along, didn't you learn that when love ends, the world doesn't? Didn't this knowledge make you stronger and wiser? Perhaps you thought you'd never be able to make new friends if your parents moved the family to a new city, only to find yourself in no time with a whole new set of friends at your new school.

Each difficult experience in our lives can help us become wiser. When faced with a new challenge, ask yourself, "What can I learn from this?" What new perspective has this situation given me?" Take the treasure of this new perspective and let it be a great consolation prize, turning what may once have looked like a loss into a winning "jackpot" in your life.

So start learning from your mistakes today..

Derek 101

Derek 101 : Happiness is the Best Success

2010-01-25T10:22:00.004+08:00

Being happy with yourself is the starting point for being a successful human being. This is what I always see in life... "HAPPINESS"..

What is your definition of a successful human being? Is it the person who is really popular on campus -- the star of the football team or the head cheerleader? Perhaps you think it's the person who has the great friends, the one who everyone thinks is "a really nice person."

Or is your definition of a successful student is the one who always get good grades? Or is it the person who has all the right clothes and the coolest "things"? "NO" there are not! But it's good to think about your definition of success so that you'll know when you're experiencing it.

Success begins with being happy with yourself. Without this happiness, your success may feel empty. Do you know someone who seems to have many triumphs and victories are still unhappy with their life? The best success in life is always being a happy human being which also depends on being how happy you are with yourself. The happiest people don't bother about whether life is fair or not. They just concentrate on what they have.

We have lots of excuses always for postponing our happiness. Here a few:

Excuse #1: If I were somewhere else, I'd be happy
Usually, the best place to make a new start is where you are!

Excuse #2: If I were older--or--younger- I'd be happy!
It's not about your age, It's always about your attitude.

Excuse #3: When I meet the perfect partner I'll be happy!
In the real world, other people don't change our lives. We do it ourselves.

Excuse #4: If I didn't have these problems I'd be happy!
The fewer rules you have about how life ought to be, and how other people ought to
behave, the easier it is to be happy.

Excuse #5: If only I had that!
You will be happy with stuff only if you can be happy without stuff.

Excuse #6: I'll be happy when.....
The happiest people aren't waiting for anything to happen. They'll go looking for it.

HAPPINESS COMES FROM FEELING GOOD AS HAPPINESS IS ALWAYS THE MOST IMPORTANT GOAL IN LIFE.

People always say. "When I get what I want, I'll be happy!" but they have it back to front.
Try looking at this way: WHEN YOU ARE HAPPY, YOU GET WHAT YOU WANT. Isn't it better?

Derek 101

Derek 101 : Music Can Change Your Mood

2010-01-24T08:30:00.004+08:00

Music is a powerful influence on your moods and attitudes! So, when you're stressed out, plug in some mellow music and let it calm you down.

Music is, well a ear candy! And here's more sweet news as Music has the power to transform just about any mood you're in! Have you ever put on one of your favourite CDs and then found yourself dancing around the room? Well, I did that and I felt myself filled with joy and playfulness..

Have you ever put on music that made you calm, tired, energized, melancholy, cheerful, sad or put you in a great mood? Yeah I did and I guess you all did as well as music has the power to transform the way you feel. Soothing music can relieve your stress by helping you relax, even lull you to sleep at times.

So especially when you're stressed out, use music to help you calm down. Turn on some positive upbeat music to give you energy and get you going in the morning. MUSIC: It not only sweeten a sour day, but it can improve oneself attitude as well! So listen to a song that makes you follow the rhythm and makes you grooves.. ♥

Derek 101

Stay The Same

2010-01-23T13:09:00.003+08:00

This song was stuck in my head since Monday after Karaoke session..

Hope things will stay the same as usual..

Let sing this together! ✰

Derek 101 : Be Good to Yourself

2010-01-23T12:30:00.004+08:00

Life is complicated for almost everyone or should I say Everyone. We all will experience which will pain us, which will annoys us and which will challenges us all the time. We must each take care of ourselves in such times.

No one's life is without trial and tribulations. No one's life is stress-free. While the goal is to be proactive so as to minimize having to always live life under duress or the edge of chaos, we must make concessions for when such times set in. During those times when things are looking down and you're stressed to the max, be especially "Extra-xtra" good to yourself by resting and eating properly, and by releasing tension through exercise and relaxation should be good.

Always be patient with yourself. Talk with others about what's troubling you; getting something out in the open diffuses its power on you. Make a list of all that is good in your life. Allow your faith to comfort you. And lastly don't ever forget to be GOOD to yourself. ♥

Derek 101

Derek 101 : Use Your Words Wisely

2010-01-22T18:43:00.000+08:00

Words are very powerful... While they may not break your bones but they can break your heart.

It's so important to remember the power of our words which are not to be taken lightly. A thoughtless remark has the potential to wound someone's heart. The momentary satisfaction you might find in venting cannot compare to the hurt feelings you could conflict.

On the other hand, your words also have the capacity to soothe, comfort, build up, support, guide and help others. They can inspire love, hope and faith. Be a person who use your words to heal and create good feelings.

So, why not start by saying something kind and helpful today!

Derek 101

Derek 101 : Get On with Life

2010-01-22T12:10:00.003+08:00

It doesn't pay to waste time getting down on yourself; It's better to get on with life. Like they say, "Nothing is as far away as a minute ago!"

Are you normally down on yourself for losing out on something or having a lost time stuck in a rut? Will you get disappointed that you got off track or lost sight of your goals as such times? Have you ever been discouraged with a failure and felt as if you might as well just give up on a goal altogether? Certainly you and I want to be reflective and learn from all these experiences, Rite? But even so, do not dwell on the past for way too long.

Each day is an opportunity for a new beginning and that means TODAY. If you're off course, don't waste your time regretting, finding fault or looking for an excuse. It's not productive to do so, and you'll only end up getting even more down on yourself. Instead, pick yourself up, regroup and get in gear: Review your goals, "reset" your determination to accomplish them and then get it started again. ♥

Derek 101